Sunday, February 15, 2009

I just hope you understand

You know how there are those people that you look at and you see them, not how their hair looks today or their body or face shape, you just see them? You know them so well that the way they look doesn't make any difference at all anymore? How do you define that? How can you pinpoint exactly when it happens and why and especially how? Or like when the places you go to frequently change? Everything is in the same place but it looks different, you see it differently? How does that happen? Is it because we change and our outlook changes? Or is it some weird, supernatural thing where the place actually does change? But how could that be?
The place I notice that most in is my grandma's house. Sometimes I go there and I don't notice anything different, it just is. But then there are those times that I go there and feel differently than normal, but it's familiar. I've seen it this way, felt this way before. Or is it me thats changing? Am I just remembering how I used to see it and how I used to feel?
Or when I look at my sister or Ariel. I can't actually see how they "look". I can only see them. And the way they look is exactly the same as it always is and always has been and I can't notice it. But I can look at other people and see their appearance. How does that happen? When does knowing a person mean more than seeing them? At what point in a relationship does personality surpass appearance?

1 comment:

Cheech said...

I guess sometimes it is because we change and we see them differently...the more we get to know them the more their personality shines through them...and you notice them for that rather then how the look on the outside..you start seeing them on the inside.